I know what you mean, I have a brother who's wife also has endo... while I was in Sydney in ospital (where they live) I didn't get so much as a phone call & the KNEW I was having major surgery!
I must admit it hurt like hell to know that he wouldn't even pick up the phone to see how I was.
I have tried over the years to get things "warmer" between us, but it only seems to make things worse.... so now I just leave it alone & be thankful for the family I have ot that does care & does contact me..... including this one here..... :-) we have always managed to be around for each other haven't we my friend, toe in taps & all hehehe ;-)
-- Love and gentle hugs, Joanne Eslick Founder Australian Adhesions Support Group http://www.bombobeach.com Australian Co-ordinator of International Adhesions Society http://www.adhesions.org
-- I am not a medical person, and all my messages are based on personal experience. I am a fellow adhesions sufferer reaching out to help others.