Re: It's just has to be adhesions/intercourse
From: Kristie (extrafeetmom@yahoo.com)
Fri Apr 23 22:08:16 2004
Hi
I guess I am very lucky. I have a husband who likes to talk. We talk
for hours about everything. I don't know anything we haven't gone
through....ill health, money problems, child with birthdefect, a murder
in my family.......it goes on. The subject about a private life is so
personal. As for my husband and I, I think we seem to get a long with
it because we have such a good commincation going on all the time. It
wasn't always this way. But not being able to have sex isn't what I
wanted, it's just the way it is. It's probably to personal to say but
here goes, you have to get creative with your sex lives. I really dont
have a huge desire, but I know how important sex is to my husband. So
we do lots of other things when I can't have intercourse. To a man, its
so important. And to women it should be, just because it is to them. Am
I making any sense here? We just celebrated our 31st wedding
anniversary. It's been a rocky road at times,but we have learned a lot.
Maybe if I was on hormones, I would have more of a desire. It's ok
though, because I DO KNOW how important it is to him, so therefore, its
important to me.
He know's very well how much I hurt. He has no desire for me to hurt
either. So I guess my advice for anyone in this situation is to just
learn to communicate. To really talk and lay your cards out on the
table. Life can go on with ARD. If your married, you both have ARD.
I hope this helped.
Kristie
At Thu, 22 Apr 2004, Jane wrote:
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>Is there any temporary relief while waiting for insurance to kick in?
>Any advice or suggestions are welcome.
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>Jane
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