Once upon a time I remember having a very healthy sex life, some "experts" need to interview some of us! Jackie "hit the nail on the head" and I just had to put my two cents in. Boy can I relate to her feelings! How can you enjoy sex when you know what comes afterwards!! I too get sick/nauseated or I end up bedridden for a day or two due to pain. When ARD takes control of your sex life you don't get a choice!