You don't have to lurk. We're always hear to listen, vent, understand, cry, ask for help. That's what we're all here for. Yes, and we all understand the anger that comes from pain that is not meant for our loved ones, but the pain causes strange things to happen, and anger is one of them that we seem to vent on others that we love, but can't be controlled; it cannot be helped, as we are suffering, and any little thing can set us off when we are in pain. Just stay your best friend, and know what your body is trying to tell you. You may be in pain from the surgery, you may not. You may still need to be on pain medication to help the healing pain. Don't over do it. Listen to your body. I think all of us have had to stay on pain mediation for a time while our bodies were still healing. Don't feel you have to cut yourself off so drastically when you may need some until the pain subsides some. Yes, it does take time to heal. Some longer than others. If your pain continues or gets worse, let us know, and we'll put our heads together here and see what your next step might be. What is your surgeon saying?
In Friendship:
Helen Chalmers