Re: I WOULD LIKE TO SCREAM SO LOUD RIGHT NOW, BUT NOONE WOULD LISTEN

From: Sally Grigg (lostcst@mcn.org)
Tue May 15 22:15:18 2001


Dear Dawn, I'm going to be straight with you so don't get upset. You seem to be articulate, but furious(for good reason). Why don't you write a letter to the doctors, the first one put in all the curse words you want and call them names, etc, but also put in all the facts and etc. Then rewrite it, giving all attention to the main points. Keep it fairly short and unemotional and do not threaten them. Send the letter registered return receipt requested. And be nice, for after all, you are nice, it's just an "unfortunate series of events that have done you such an injustice as to delay you help for so long" (in other words they're********) but don't say that. Love, and good luck, Sally

dawn wrote:

> HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF YOU'VE BEEN IN PAIN FOR 15 MONTHS HAVE A
> LAPAROTOMY SCHEDULED FOR 4/5 HAVE THE MD CANCELL IT ON 4/4 AT 2PM AND BE
> LEFT TO JUST DEAL WITH EVERYTHING ALONE. I AM AT MY WITS END RIGHT NOW
> I'M SO TICKED OFF I COULD SCREAM AND DO MASSIVE ACTS OF VIOLENCE. I
> HAVE BEEN WAITING SINCE 4/10 FOR MY GYN APPOINTMENT, BECAUSE ONCE THE
> LAPAROTOMY WAS CANCELLED BY THE MD'S CONVENIENTLY THEY HAVEN'T HAD AN
> AVAILABLE APPOINTMENT UNTIL 5/22. I HAVE BEEN HAVING BREAK THROUGH
> BLEEDING(SPOTTING FOR 5 WEEKS SINCE 4/10. I CALLED LAST WEEK AND WAS
> ABLE TO MOVE THE APPOINTMENT UP BECAUSE I ACTUALLY STARTED TO BLEED AND
> I GET A CALL TELLING ME THAT BY MISTAKE THE TIME SLOT WAS DOUBLE BOOKED
> SO I'D HAVE TO RESCHEDULE, NEXT APPOINTMENT AVAILABLE JUNE 1. I ASKED
> IF I COULD HAVE MY 5/22 SPOT BACK AND WAS TOLD THEY ALREADY RESCHEDULE
> THAT TIME SLOT.
> iT SEEMS TO BE THAT ON MY FIRST VISIT TO THAT PRACTICE I SAW DR W. WHO
> IS ONE OF THOSE I'M THE DOCTOR YOUR THE PATIENT TYPE OF PEOPLE, ON MY
> SECOND VISIT I SAW DR M. WHO IS ONE OF THOSE PATIENTS ARE MEMBERS OF
> THE TEAM. I DON'T WANT DR W I WANT TO SEE DR M. IT WAS DR M WHO HAD
> THE LAPAROTOMY SCHEDULED, CANCELLED BY DR W WHO TOLD ME I WOULD HAVE TO
> HAVE A LAPAROSCOPY OR NOTHING. I WAS TOLD AFTER THE FACT BY DR M THAT
> HE CAN'T GO AGAINST HIS PARTNERS OPINION. WELL THEN MAYBE HE SHOULD
> HAVE HAD EVERYTHING VERIFIED BEFORE I WENT AND HAD ALL THE PRE OP LABS
> DONE. I VERIFIED 3 TIMES WITH THE OFFICE OF WHAT WAS GOING TO BE DONE,
> ONCE WHEN I SIGNED THE CONSENT FORM, ONCE AFTER I HAD THE LAB WORK DONE
> BECAUSE THE HOSPITAL HAD IT DOWN FOR LAPAROSCOPY AND ONCE AFTER I SPOKE
> WITH ANESTHESIOLOGY BECAUSE THEY TOO HAD IT DOWN AS A SCOPE. WHY WASN'T
> THIS ATTENDED TOO 10 DAYS BEFORE WHEN I KEPT CALLING AND VERIFYING?
> WHAT EVER HAPPENED TO PROFESSIONALISM? WHAT HAPPENED TO TAKING CARE OF
> PATIENTS BOTH PHYSICALLY AND EMOTIONALLY?, IT SHOULD BE NOTED FOR THE
> RECORD THAT DR W IS A WOMAN AND DR M IS A MAN. I DON'T THINK THAT
> EITHER OF THEM ARE AWARE OF THE IMPLICATIONS THAT ARE HAPPENING TO ME. I
> HAVE FINALLY FOUND A MALE MD WHO I FEEL ALMOST COMFORTABLE WITH AND NOW
> IM BEING TOLD TOO BAD. WHAT ON EARTH ARE THEY THINKING? CERTAINLY NOT
> ABOUT ME THAT'S FOR SURE.
> IT SEEMS TO ME THAT DR W IS JUST THINKING ABOUT A PELVIS FORGETING THAT
> THERE IS ABOUT 175LB OF PERSON ATTACHED TO IT, WITH A VERY FRAGILE
> EMOTIONAL STATE RIGHT NOW.
> HAVE NO FEAR MY INSURANCE BOOK IS OPENED AGAIN IN SEARCH OF YET ANOTHER
> MD. I HAVE ALSO MADE AN APPOINTMENT WITH MY LOCAL GI MD WHO IS ABOUT AS
> KIND AS YOU CAN GET, HOPEFULLY HE CAN OFFER SOME SUGGESTIONS.
>


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