Re: problem with the boards

From: marianne bolding (ojowojo@yahoo.com)
Thu Jul 19 12:54:23 2001


Thanks Jean...I don't use this word lightly...but...I love you. --- Jean Long <creative@enter.net> wrote: > Marianne,
> No....you didn't offend me at all!
> I don't expect any more sympathy than anyone else
> but you definitely didn't offend me in any way.
> I sympathize with "anyone" in pain, regardless if
> mine or theirs is worse, and I don't think you meant
> it otherwise either.
> It is no big deal to me or something needing
> dwelling on from anyone.....just "another" one of
> the "nit-picking" deals that occur on here from time
> to time.
>
> No-one is perfect and not everyone thinks or says
> things alike all the time and that is their given
> right!
> We are not in school and require editing or
> chastising....SUPPORT and info. is what it is and
> should all be about (and correct info. I might add,
> not like I did in error-LOL).
> I have allot of differing thoughts and opinions so
> does it mean I don't belong here?
>
> Just let it roll off and try again (LOL)!
> JEAN
>
> Quote of the week:
> "Learn from the mistakes of others........
> You can't live long enough to make them all
> yourself"

>> ----- Original Message -----
> From: "marianne bolding" <ojowojo@yahoo.com>
> To: "Multiple recipients of list ADHESIONS"
> <adhesions@mail.medispecialty.com>
> Sent: Thursday, July 19, 2001 1:02 PM
> Subject: Re: problem with the boards
>
> Jean...You are so right...that is a comment i made
> in
> an e-mail last night...a personal question to
> you....did I offend you when I said..."I know your
> problems are worse than mine"... I apologize if it
> does...I think you know I mean no harm...or
> belittlement. Marianne
> --- Jean Long <creative@enter.net> wrote:
> > The problem with the boards is no-one sees
> people's
> > facial expressions or hears their tone of voice,
> let
> > alone know their personality!
> > JEAN
> >
> > Quote of the week:
> > "Learn from the mistakes of others........
> > You can't live long enough to make them all
> > yourself"
> >

>> > ----- Original Message -----
> > From: <mm.hammond@att.net>
> > To: "Multiple recipients of list ADHESIONS"
> > <adhesions@mail.medispecialty.com>
> > Sent: Wednesday, July 18, 2001 11:13 PM
> > Subject: Re: agree with Janet
> >
> > Colette Sweetheart,
> >
> > I have to agree with Janet. First off, I think
> this
> > was
> > a very simple misunderstanding....perhaps you are
> > having
> > a very bad day...the pain is out of
> > control..whatever.
> > We have to sit down and think about our actions
> > before
> > we jump into things that might explode in our
> faces.
> >
> > Helen D. is an absolute sweetheart. I am sure
> there
> > are
> > many times when while doing her best to assist us,
> > she
> > finds it necessary to handle things as quickly as
> > possible. Often this may come across as cold and
> > uncaring....but I guarantee you that this is not
> the
> >
> > case....it is just a matter of having so many
> things
> > to
> > do and very little time to do it in. I have been
> > having
> > this same problem with a friend of mine who is not
> > on
> > this list. I am finding myself explaining to this
>
> > friend that I am not angry or upset. When I look
> > back
> > to find out why this person would form this
> opinion
> > I
> > find that the only thing it could be is
> > misinterpreting
> > my very brief messages into something cold and
> > uncaring. I hope they understand that I am doing
> my
> >
> > best and hold no ill feelings towards them as I am
> > sure
> > Helen holds none towards you. Hope this helps you
>
> > understand.
> >
> > Love,
> >
> > Karla
> > > Dear Colette,
> > >
> > > Thank you, I appreciate your message.
> > >
> > > I would really like to ask you to work things
> out
> > privately with people on
> > > the board when your feelings are hurt or if you
> > have conflicts or need to
> > > clarify things that could simply be
> > misunderstandings.
> > >
> > > We all have so much hurt inside already. I hate
> to
> > see this lashing out at
> > > people I love and care so much about. I am not
> > trying to embarass you, or
> > > hurt your feelings more, I would have sent this
> to
> > you privately, but don't
> > > have your e-mail address.
> > >
> > > Helen D. is the co-founder, and director of this
> > blessing of a site that I
> > > call HOME. She devotes precious time and energy
> to
> > provide us all with
> > > education, support and unity, in spite of the
> fact
> > that she has suffered
> > > with this disease for almost 30 years!!! If
> anyone
> > should be allowed to
> > > type in caps every once in awhile, it should be
> > our dear Helen D.!
> > >
> > > Love and hugs,
> > >
> > > Janet
> > >
> > > > [Original Message]
> > > > From: <anonymous@medispecialty.com (Colette )>
> > > > To: Multiple recipients of list ADHESIONS
> > > <adhesions@mail.medispecialty.com>
> > > > Date: 7/18/01 7:56:44 AM
> > > > Subject: Re: Settled in
> > > >
> > > > Hi Janet,
> > > > So glad you are settled in with your kitties!
> I
> > have 5 kitties, 2
> > > > outdoor and 3 indoor i love them so much they
> > are so comforting are'nt
> > > > they? I can't send you a picture cause we
> don't
> > have all that stuff yet!
> > > > But when i do i will! I know the adjustment is
> > going to be hard at first
> > > > but i think you will like your space after
> > awhile! Well you take care!
> > > > Big painfree hugs your way!
> > > > Love ya!
> > > > Colette
> > > > >
> > > > >Hi everyone,
> > > > >
> > > > >Janet here...just wanted to let you know that
> > the kitties and I are
> > > > >happily settled into our new home now.
> Thanks
> > millions for all of your
> > > > >kindness andsupport through this time, it has
> > made everything much more
> > > > >bearable to have friends like you to lean on.
>
> > I was thinking it would
> > > > >help brighten my place alot to have some
> > pictures of all of you to frame
> > > > >and put up...in fact, I don't know why I
> never
> > thought of this before!
>
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