Janet
From: marianne bolding (ojowojo@yahoo.com)
Tue Aug 14 02:09:54 2001
Thank you Janet...I especially "hear" the "I am not
defined by my job". I thank you for pointing that
out. And it is important to believe...I think
interviewers pick up on weaknesses...such as not
believing in yourself. It's important to keep myself
up...not face this as another tragedy...but an entity
of its own. It's just another challenge/hurtle that
is "supposed" to make me stronger :-)....my husband
said my boss was a chicken poop shit to let me go that
way, he should've told me to my face. My husband is
right. I wanted to call the principle and tell him
that...but, I figured that resentment and complaining
is not a positive or healthy feeling for myself.
I'll have good days and bad days comin' up...I'll take
them one day at a time. Love, Marianne (Sure could
use a massage :-) ... went to a chiro instead...he is
doing weird stuff to the hernia to manipulate it. I
hate the feeling while he's doing it and right
after...but, I think he's helping it alot...so is that
nasty aloe vera juice. It's that mind-body connection
thing. :-)
--- Janet Karam <janetk7@earthlink.net> wrote:
>
> Dear Marianne,
>
> What an awful surprise...and to receive it by mail,
> I am so
> sorry. It doesn't feel like it now, but I know you
> will be okay. You are a very
> special and warm-hearted woman, I have complete
> confidence that a better
> opportunity will open up to you so long as you
> believe it, and keep putting one
> foot in front of the other. You should be able to
> keep insurance through COBRA
> for 18 months after your date of termination(I've
> been there...more expensive,
> but for people like us very important). Your and
> your life are not defined by
> your job, you are still our wonderfully sweet and
> lovable Marianne!
>
> Hugs,
>
> Janet
>
>> ----- Original Message -----
>
> From: marianne bolding
>
> To: Multiple recipients of list ADHESIONS
>
> Sent: 8/11/01 2:04:08 PM
>
> Subject: My job
>
> I guess I need to deal with an issue that has come
>
> up...I received a letter in the mail stating..."Due
> to
>
> the recent budget cuts at TUSD (TUcson Unified
> School
>
> District) your position as a High School Finance
>
> Office Asst. has been eliminated. The Human
> Resources
>
> Dept. will be contacting you shortly to discuss the
>
> implications of your job being eliminated." signed
> my
>
> principal at the high school...my hands are shaking
>
> like a leaf. I don't even want to tell my
>
> husband...and there goes my insurance...couldn't
> even
>
> tell me to my face at work about this...sent it in a
>
> letter. Dreaded ARD...thanks for ruining my life.
>
> I'm a mess now. Just when I try to think
> positive...I
>
> always end up with some more bad news. It never
>
> ends...first adhesions, then a hernia, now I've lost
>
> my job and insurance...and almost all hope. LIFE
>
> SUCKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Marianne
>
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