Sally, I'm sorry to hear of your pressures. May you
wake to many blue birds on your window sill. Just
curious....who cleans all those rooms at your inn?
You have a maid? Resorting to an old joke I think
started by Nancy..."Where is that maid when you need
her!" LOL Love, Marianne
--- Sally Grigg <lostcst@mcn.org> wrote:
> Dear Diane, I understand you have had laparoscopic > surgery for adhesions > just three weeks ago. I had the same thing on June > 28th this year. I > was still extremely sore after three weeks. I just > got the video of my > operation. Yes, they had a camera right in there > through these little > tiny holes. After I saw what they had to do, its no > wonder I still hurt. > That gets better with time. It's way too soon to > make any judements > about your operation's success. You have to heal > first and that can > literally take a few more months. > > As to the depression, everyone is different. Our > bodies have gone > through years of pain, followed by the outrage of > surgery. It's no > wonder we get depressed. There are also indiviudual > life factors that > are different for everybody. Sometimes, we've lost > jobs or relationships > or friends, because no one understands. > > I'm incredibly depressed right now. Now that it's > been seven weeks, my > husband wants the Inn cleaned up (ITS already clean, > but our living > space and the office are filled with piles because > I've been in the > fetal position for hours on end each day.) Well, now > he wants it CLEAN > and he wants it done now and he's yelling at me. > > So that's enough to make anybody, even someone who > has been strong > enough to make a successful business, while in > agony, just about as > depressed as you can be. I hope I didn't make you > more depressed. But > you are definitely not alone. We're here for you and > we're not going > away. So please write and we'll write back and I'll > try to cheer up if > you will. Remember, tomorrow is indeed another day, > and things do get > better. The sun comes out, the birds sing, someone > does something nice > for you. We care. Love and gentle hugs, Sally > > > >
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