Re: Pain Physical and Emotional

From: Wally (wallamara@hotmail.com)
Sun Sep 9 01:33:02 2001


Hi Colette,

I can relate to you and the physical & emotional pain you are experiencing right now. I have been sitting in the same boat for the last two weeks, thanks to my youngest brother.

Be comforted by the fact that all of your actions and decisions have been in the best of intensions for your dad. I would suggest that you see your family doctor and explain your circumstances, you need someone to support you, and look after your sanity & your health!

I have included my doctor in my family crisis, and she has been a font of support and understanding, as well as the practical.....by this, making sure that I have the means to treat my increase in pain due to the stress and tension I am experiencing while dealing with our family crisis.

My thoughts, prayers & love are with you my friend, talk to you dad....(Have a good old chat to him in your head.....you will know what his response would be in a conversation...use it to comfort yourself). Remember that he loves you & trusts you, that is why he sought your help before it got to this point.

((((((((((((Colette)))))))))))))))

from your aussie pal, Jo

At Fri, 7 Sep 2001, Colette wrote: >
>I everyone i'v notice that some of are ladies are not here! Lynda and
>marrianne where is everyone! But welcome to all the new people!
>I got news about my dad he is bleeding internally he has no feeding tube
>i really hope i'm not killing him! My mom and i are going to fly to las
>vegas next sat! Is there anyone on the board from Las Vegas? My dad is
>in Henderson Nv which i believe is'nt far! Just trying to find the
>cheapest airfare!
>I cry all day its so hard! And now my leftside hurts sooo bad this start
>about a week ago now its getting worse! I did go to the dr's but they
>forgot to make the appt.So now i have to wait until Mon. If i can! It
>feels like a 61/2 on the pain scale i can't do anything right nowits on
>the leftside but runs across my middle it feels like a knife ripping my
>insides! If its not my dad its me i cry all day why me and why now i
>need to feel good so i can see my dad! Stupid dr's anyhow gosh so now i
>sit here all weekend unable to eat in pain no pain meds and being a
>first time patient i can't get any ohh yaaa!! And crying and praying my
>dad won't die before next sat! While is'nt life grand LOL!! Everything
>seems to happen at once! The funny thing is that the pain is'nt in 1
>area so its hard to pin point!
>I could go to the ER but i need $100 co-pay which i don't have they
>waive it if i'm in the hospital for more than 24 hrs gee maybe i could
>go nuts and begg them to keep me god knows i have enough problems there
>has to be a way! Well thanks for letting me vent its been an awful week!
>Love you guys!
> Colette


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