Re: no sympathy needed

From: Millie (milliem@citlink.net)
Sat Nov 3 20:21:10 2001


Dear Karla, Your letter really makes me open my eyes, and realize how much I have to be thankful for. I was one of those people who went from Dr. to Dr., as well as returning to the same ones who basically did 'squat' to help me. Also to be added to the repeat surgeries... people must also remember... when you sign a consent form for any kind of surgery, you may end up missing parts that never should have been removed, as well as even more problems than before. Karla, God Bless you, and again... thanks for a real wake-up call! Millie

>----- Original Message -----
From: "Karla" <ifirgit@new.rr.com> To: "Multiple recipients of list ADHESIONS" <adhesions@mail.medispecialty.com> Sent: Saturday, November 03, 2001 6:22 PM Subject: no sympathy needed

> I just wanted to add that I am not out looking for sympathy. I have a
> big purpose in reposting my quilt story....stopping you all from going
> through all of these surgical procedures with physicians who don't know
> what they are doing.
>
> I am going to be very blunt and honest...and my butt will probably be
> kicked off of this list for saying what I am going to say...but it is MY
> opinion and it needs to be said. This is not an attack on anyone. Too
> often we have new people come to this list looking for doctors to help
> them out. God Bless them all! But, without them knowing that their
> really aren't any doctors out there that can help they wonder aimlessly
> from one doctor to the next. Surgery after surgery. Soon they will all
> end up like me!!!! Don't do it! Save up the money and go to Germany or
> to the adhesion clinic in Scranton....its well worth it. You may not
> get the cure you are looking for, but after you have been there you will
> no that you've been to the best. People have to realize that each
> surgery they go through makes their condition worse. The only answer is
> to stop having the surgery...until they can go to the best. And
> hopefully they can get everything taken care of with those doctors. I
> have only heard of a few individuals who continue to have problems after
> making these visits...so to me its time and money well spent.
>
> I suppose you are all saying...."then why is she looking to have another
> surgery". I don't have a choice. Mine isn't about adhesions
> anymore...although adhesions caused the problem. When I sit back and
> count the number of surgeries I have had in my lifetime its probably
> real close to fifty. All because I was so ignorant that I trusted in
> the doctors to do what was right. Now, if I don't have surgery I will
> die...and the dying part is getting closer and closer with each
> hospitalization for infection.
>
> Don't do it! Do your research and get to the best doctor available. I
> don't care if you like your doctor or not...I liked mine!!! I know that
> none of you like to be in pain...me either, but pain is a lot better
> than being dead!
>
> God Bless!
> Karla
>


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