Re: Question??

From: Millie (milliem@citlink.net)
Thu Mar 14 07:30:59 2002


Hi, Lillian and Beth, I have noticed some major changes , shall we say in the same "Dept." since the hyst. Why, oh why didn't they warn us? My hubby has been understanding , but I often wonder for how long, and every so often , I get so upset. More than every so often. Lillian, don't feel bad about venting, because that's what we're here for... venting, and support. Beth, any ideas? I've found a few things, but... Thanks for listening. Millie.

>----- Original Message -----
From: "BethC" <bcann@hotmail.com> To: "Multiple recipients of list ADHESIONS" <adhesions@mail.medispecialty.com> Sent: Wednesday, March 13, 2002 8:25 PM Subject: Re: Question??

> Hi Lillian
> I know exactly what you mean about the guilt with the hubby. Mine too
> has been wonderful and supportive.
> If you want to email me directly, I can share a couple "tricks" that
> have worked in that area. You don't have to be too open minded either
> LOL hehe.
> Hang in there
> You're Not Alone Anymore
> Beth C
>
> At Wed, 13 Mar 2002, Msvirgo9459@aol.com wrote:
> >
> >To All OF you who responded I appreciate you sharing. Sometimes I
question > >myself thinking this can't be,But I am sure happy to have all of you
around > >to keep me sane. It is so hard to tell your spouse that intercourse
caused > >you to be in such pain.It surely will cause a complex. I am feeling so
guilty > >about that. I Love him so much and he has been there for me every step of
the > >way and taken such good care of me. Argued with docs to get me help and I
> >have to refrain from intercourse because of the pain. That is just so
> >degrading to me. I know you guys know where I'm coming from. We have been
> >through so much together and stuck it out. Our son was born with so many
> >birth defects and we almost lost him and we made it. And 8 surgeries +
and he > >is still loving me. I feel so guilty.
> >Thanks for listening to me vent.
> >Lillian
>
> --
> Not Alone Anymore...
>


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