I am so sorry to hear about your Mom. Sometime it is hard for us to understand why poeple make the decisions that they do, especially when dealing with cancer. Given a little bit of time your Mom may see the brighter side of things and decide to fight. I sure hope so. As a person diagnosed with cancer last fall, all I can tell you it is terrifying. Everyone deals in different ways which aren't alwys easy for those who care to understand. Family and friends will help you through this ordeal. I hope your husband does talk to her and get her to change her mind! I send my love and prayers to you both.Take it one day at a time and know that we are all there with you giving you strength!
Your NH friend, Kathy R