At Tue, 15 Oct 2002, Cyndi wrote:
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>At Mon, 13 Mar 2000, Mary wrote:
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>>At Mon, 13 Mar 2000, toni welsh wrote:
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>>>I have been alittle busy the last few days, abd as usual having a rough
>>>time. I am trying so hard to overcome the depression that comes along
>>>with our troubles and our loved ones. It is getting to the time of the
>>>year when my mom died, and I cannot get past that. I cannot stand
>>>trying to deal with what the drs did to her, if they would have cared
>>>and treated her, I know she would be alive to day.
>>>
>>>I was in the shower to day and burst out in tears, and asked her "Why
>>>mon did you not go the drs, after 26 years!" Oh well, I will make it,
>>>Karla thank you so much for trying to ease the pain we are going through
>>>with my father in law, my husband is in such a state, we went to take
>>>them dinner last night, and he slept almost the whole time, and he was a
>>>VERY active man, hunted, fished, camped every wekewnd, took care of his
>>>4 beagles in the back yard, and never stopped, now I cannot belive what
>>>2 months has done.
>>>
>>>His MRI is tomorrow morning, and we will probably know his alot more
>>>then, thanks Karla, for caring, we all will get through this I hope!
>>>
>>>Toni
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>>Toni,
>>I am fairly new to this board and am finding it to be very helpfull. I
>>have read several of your posts and I feel for you. I 2 know about
>>loosing family members and whats it is like to watch them go down
>>hill.My mother took sick when I was 5 ( brain anerisim) and laid in a
>>coma blind, deaf, paralysed, and mute. She stayed this way for 14
>>years. I have some sad memories and some happy ones. I can remember
>>the day my Father came home and explained to us mom was never coming
>>home. I can even tell what clothes I was wearing and also my sisters.
>>My dads Mom helped raise us kids and she passed away when I wasnt ready
>>to let go. I have terrible times around the dates of thier deaths and
>>thier B_Days. What I have found to help cope with this is I sit back
>>and pray. I realize that my Loss is Gods gain. They are both up in
>>heaven and I strongly believe that they are watching over me and my
>>family. I try to remember the good times that we shared and thier warm
>>hugs. The pain of loosing them and watching thier bodys go through so
>>much and in my Grandmothers case so fast and unexpected is still with me
>>and will always remain but I try real hard just to stay focused on what
>>we shared. Remember even though she is gone her love for you is till
>>there. My heart goes out to you and your family. I will say a special
>>prayer for you and your father in law.
>>
>>--
>>Mary
>>
>Well i have a few questions about brain anerisims and i was wondering
>who could tell me about them. Why do they happen and what causes them.
>When i was 9 years old i stayed home from school because i didnt do my
>homework (i said i was sick),when i finally came out of my bedroom my
>mom was lying on the couch andcouldn't move, she could barely talk,
>could hardly hear me and was acting really funny. When my grandparents
>got there, the ambulance took her away, and never again did i see her.
>She died 1 week later in the hospital. My family told me that she died
>from a brain anerisim, but being 9 yrs old i had no clue what that was.
>and the funny thing is, i still to this day dont know what really
>happened to my mom and what she went through,my family wont talk to me
>about it and feel that some things are better off not talked about. Well
>i just turned 18 on sat and i feel that maybe i should know the truth.
>If someone could please help me out here...i really want to know what my
>mother went through and if there is anything i need to worry about.
>thank you, cyndi
>ps, please write me back with any info.