Re: My Mother and Husband
From: Cheryl (woodenflower52@aol.com)
Sat Oct 19 06:03:31 2002
At Fri, 18 Oct 2002, RobynD423 wrote:
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>Good Morning Everyone,
>As I mentioned yesterday - I'm scheduled for surgery on Tueday. Here's
>the situation - due to my husband not being able to take off from work
>my mother is taking me in. I'm a little bummed my husband won't be
>there but we really can't afford for him to miss work and in all reality
>I can be mature and responsible about this. So anyway my mom is taking
>me - here's the dilema - my mom and husband haven't spoke to one another
>since last January - the reason in a nutshell is because we were having
>marital problems in fact I moved out with my son and went to live with
>my parents for a while and unfortunatley I told my mom some things I
>shouldn't have because I was angry w/ my husband. Praise God that my
>marriage is fine today and we're working throug our problems. Well my
>mom just can't stand my husband and she thinks I'm an idiot for going
>back, etc. I'm just curious what's going ot happen on Tuesday if the
>two of them cross paths or I know my husband is going to want a call to
>see how I'm doing but my mom won't call. I just don't really know what
>to do about this. I do feel better venting.
>Hope everyone is have a good day.
>Love to all. Robyn
>
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>Robyn
>
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Robyn, You will be in my thoughts and prayers for your
surgery on Tuesday. Maybe you could call the hospital
and get the phone number of the recovery area where you
will be. That way your husband would be able to call and
speak with your nurse personally. He would get accurate
first hand news of your recovery and not have to interact
with your mother. I feel for you. I know what that feeling
is like; to be in the middle. Feeling pulled in two directions
and loving them both. Keep the faith and things will be fine..
Your friend with love and prayers.....Cheryl Cole