Dear Toni..
I feel so bad for you girl..i just recently finished up all the details
in a nasty nasty divorce...3 years to the month..from the day he told me
that he was leaving because he could not deal with all of the junk that
was happening to me medically...this from the man that vowed before God
to have and to hold in sickness and in health til death do us part...
At first i just thought i would lay down and die..then i got mad..and
then i decided to get even...well since he already had a new love in his
life..and seemed quite happy..there was only one way to get even..and
that was to hurt his wallet..hehe and thats what i did..i went to court
and i asked for the highest amount of alimony that i could get...and i
was awarded just that..and it added up to more than half of what he made
every month..hehehe..plus i asked that he would have to keep me on his
medical insurance until the end of the 4 yr period of time that i was
awraded the alimony for...
So it was like haha i got you back now bud....but nothing could help me
feelbetter really...it took months before i ever even felt like a human
being again...but i did get better and the pain finally stopped..and i
got up and moved on to bigger and better things...and now i can say that
even sticking it to my ex the way i did ..didnt really help me feel
better cause im not a mean person..but at least he wont be wining and
dining his new love for a while cause im getting all his money haha.
But you just need to keep your head up girl..it will get better honest
it will.
And if ya need a shoulder to cry on or an ear to vent to..im always here
girl..email me at cookietish@earthlink.net or write me here...ok
Your in my prayers and thoughts..
hugs and love
Tish