Re: Has any one had this done?

From: Kristie (extrafeetmom@yahoo.com)
Sat Apr 19 02:40:58 2003


Hi Robin, My name is Kristie. I am sorry your going through pain. I am also very sorry your father is having problems. But I was to express a few things to you. I had a stroke at 44 and so I had an angiogram. It's scary stuff. But I did fine. My dad has had many and he is 86. I think you have a right to be nervos, but many people have these every day....try to relax. Also with regards with your mom....the old saying here..."the shoe makers kids don't have shoes..." applies. Is there any way you can sit your mom down and tell her you don't like the way she told you about your nonnie? Stress can triger things....I bet your dad gets better...... May you have a great holiday weekend....and you and your father get well... Kristie

At Fri, 18 Apr 2003, Robin wrote: >
>Dear All,
>I was refered to another DR. She wants me to have vaginal floor
>physical therapy. I am not sure what it intails. She is also talking
>about an electrod, something like the tens unit, but much stronger. The
>electrods are attached to the nerves in the lower back to help reduce
>the pain. The first put in a trial one, if it works, they will put in a
>more permanent one.
>I am having a hard time right now. Last Friday, my Dad had a stress
>test done that did not go well. On Wed night, my Mom took him to the
>hospital with chest pains.(He is On Thurs, they did a angeogram & found
>95% blockage & 65% blockage & took him into surgery & put in 2 stents.
>He is supose to be going home today. Well, that is stressful, but the
>worse part is I didn't find any of it out until Thursday noon! I was on
>the way home (5 hour trip) from the DR appointment. I am just so upset
>that my Mom didn't tell me that any of this was going on. I talked to
>her on Sunday & she didn't tell me about the stress test on Friday. When
>my Grandmother died (right over 5 yrs ago), she called me. She said
>"Nonnie is dead". no warning or I have bad news or anything. I am
>afraid my Dad is going to die & she will not tell me until it is too
>late for me to go & see him. I did call & talk to my Dad yesterday. I
>am going to call him this morning too. My Mother is a psycologist. She
>does counceling for so many, but it seems when it comes to me, she is
>heartless. I am just hurt & angry that my Dad could have died & she
>didn't say anything to me.
>love & prayers to all,
>robin M

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Let's be good to ourselves....Kristie

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