Cheryl, I am truly sorry you are going thr this, but I am here to tell you that you are not alone in this. This is a vicious cycle that can't be stopped, but it can be controlled to a certain point. There are no easy answers. I know that there are many Dr's and medical professions that are trying to find a way for a cure, unfortunately there are not alot of loud voices yet to speak up. There is a website that can help you. http://www.adlap.com.
There are 3 adhesion specialist who can help you. You may also want to try going to a pain management specialist who can help you control the pain you are in. My primary care doctor at the time decided it would be in my best interest if he dropped me as his patient and to seek another Dr who had more hospital privileges than he did. It was a blessing, because I found a Dr who is compassionate and understanding.
She knows what I am going through. I wish I had the finances to help those who are in desperate need of help. My quest is to get the word out about ARD and those who are affected by it. If you ever need someone to listen and vent, I will always be here to listen and help in any way I can. Dee