Been A While Since I Posted
From: Annmarie (annvolpert@COX.NET)
Mon May 1 23:09:50 2006
Hi Everyone,
It has been about a year since I have posted, last time I was on I was
having more adhesions taken down and they found my colon was adhered.
Then two months later I had a hernia from the operation. I am now 30
years old and have had 7 operations due to these adhesions, when they
did the last sugery they used sepra film and i think that it helped
somewhat.
I have my constant tugging and pulling on the right side but have just
learned to deal. I have enough with my 6 year old son who is bipolar
and my 3 year old who has a speech problem. It is hard because my
family has nothing to do with me or my kids because my husband is half
phillipino and that is not accepted with them.
I now have been having gallbladder issues and have to go in on the 15th
of may for a lap and they will attempt to take some of the adhesions
down while in there.
I have had a lap before from a different doctor and it turned out to be
a disaster because a major blood vessel was hit. I am very scared and
feel alone.
My family thinks that I am crazy. My husband is very supportive but my
sister in law sent me this email
If were taliking about being snubbed how about the fact of that I was
very sick and have had many operation and no one even cared.(this is me
in the email)
( this is her)To be totally honest, we lost count after the second
operation--talking to you on the phone became draining after a while
since every conversation consisted of how sick you were and when the
next hospital visit was going to be. How a person so young can be so
sick at precisely the same times as family parties, holidays, etc is
beyond my comprehension. It comes to a point where physical and
psychological illness cross paths and this is what I really think the
issue at hand is. If you are seeking attention, using medical illness
is not a healthy way of getting it.
I guess I was wondering if anyone has these problems where people think
they are crazy.
Thanks for listening I would love some advise they say the gallbladder
should come out but i am very scared.
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