Re: Let's talk about symptoms!

From: WendyEbbe3@aol.com
Fri Feb 20 21:22:41 2009


Kelly and Debbie, The Bee Gee brother died from a bowel obstruction? No one should ever have to apologize for venting how they feel. I know that I'm almost to the point where I don't want to live any more if this is as good as it gets. I'm only hanging on waiting to get an appointment to see a Social Security Judge and then find a Surgeon in Minnesota that has the skills and knowledgeable on adhesions. Hoping that there is a Surgeon out there that can give me my life back. I've already lost a good job at Andersen Windows and I have two girls, one is in college and the other a Senior in High School. I can't make ends meet on disability. I'm so lucky my parents own the house I live in. I'm so lucky I still have them. My Mom takes me to most of my appointments. I always dream of winning the lottery or just coming into a lot of money so I could start, dang it I have a hard time remember things. I lost a lot of my mind while I was on Lyrica. I would like to set up some funding for research to find a cure. Maybe even to help out people who can't afford all the tests they put you through or even surgery. Maybe even educate these Dr's. that don't believe they cause pain. I'll keep dreaming and in the mean time, Take Care All! Wendy Ebbe

========Original Message======== Subj: Re: Let's talk about symptoms! Date: 2/20/2009 10:23:27 P.M. Central Standard Time From: _klmurray_61@msn.com_ (mailto:klmurray_61@msn.com) To: _adhesions@mail.obgyn.net_ (mailto:adhesions@mail.obgyn.net) Sent on:

I know what you mean. How do we know if it is a life or death situation. Remember the BeeGee brother died from a blockage and it seems like someone else that was famous did. Some times I think maybe I better go and get it checked out but do not want to go and it ends up passing. I am not in awe of any dr. anymore. I realize they don't sit higher then we do.

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From: _BBLDEB@aol.com_ (mailto:BBLDEB@aol.com) To: _Multiple recipients of list ADHESIONS_ (mailto:adhesions@mail.obgyn.net) Sent: Friday, February 20, 2009 8:07 PM Subject: Re: Let's talk about symptoms!

Kelly, I too have blockages. Most of the time I can go up to 3 weeks or more before having a bowel movement. Needless to say, that explains why I have so much nausea and vomiting. And for the most part, I go up to 3 or more days at a time without eating. And when I do try, other than a teaspoon, maybe a tablespoon, it usually comes back up. My question to my surgeon was "how long do I have to go without having a bowel movement before you consider it to be a blockage?" To this day, no doctor has ever answered that question. They know I am full of adhesions, (28 abdominal surgeries to date) and now they tell me the only way they will operate again is if I have a blockage. Well, if 3 weeks is not a blockage, then I have no clue what is! And what is so bad about it, I am very knowledgeable in medical /prescription areas. It is unbelievable what some doctor's will say in order to rid of a patient that they can't figure out or can't help or have no clue on how to treat. I am sorry, but to me, if they are a surgeon, then this is something they "ALL" should be able to deal with. They cause them every time they do surgery! (Venting for a moment, sorry). The worst part is they know about my blockages, but the doctor says that he wants it to be a "Life or Death" situation before he will do anything. Well, to me, going 3 weeks in that kind of pain is "DEATH" every day for the most part. When gas passes, that is the only relief for a blockage, when a doctor won't do anything at all. I have 4 kinks in my bowel from the adhesions (that I know of). Good luck to all of us and hopefully we will find help soon.

Sincerely, Debbie

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