Re: Surgery again? I need your advice!!

From: MeLissa (lissamelwh@aol.com)
Mon Aug 9 10:53:03 1999


At Sun, 8 Aug 1999, Valerie Gates wrote: >
>Well, here I am faced with the difficult decision of whether or not to
>have surgery again! I swore 8 1/2 years ago that I wouldn't let anyone
>cut on me again unless I was dying! Well, I'm not dying...(feels like it
>sometimes) but I'm seriously considering surgery again. The tests I had
>Friday showed a partial bowel obstruction due to adhesions kinking the
>bowel on my left side. I'm out of sick leave because I've been sick
>with this stuff so much this year, and I really don't know what to do!!
>For over a week and a half, I have been so miserable that I am only able
>to lay around and sleep. I have so much I need to do.....so many things
>I'm supposed to be.....and all I can do is nothing because of my stupid
>gut!! I'm supposed to get up tomorrow and go to work and sit at a
>computer all day.......I don't know if I can do it! WHAT DO I DO? Please
>offer any advice you might have!
>
>Valerie
>
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>Valerie Gates
>

Hi Valerie,

I'd seriously consider having the surgery if I were you. I know that another surgery will increase your likelihood of growing mor adhesions, but a bowel obstruction and be deadly if left untreated. I realize that what you have is a partial obstruction, but if you let it go, it could become a full one. On another note, I'd greatly appreciate it if you could either email me or post here, what testing you just had done to let you know for sure you have an obstruction. Also what are the symptoms you're experiencing? I ask because I'm fairly sure that I too have bowel adhesions again. I'm going to the dr.s today and plan on demanding that some tests are done. In the past, they've just cut me open without running any tests first. So far, I've had 3 surgeries this year because of them

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Good luck to all,
MeLissa

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