Re: IGOR
From: LNewman@milbank.com
Tue Jun 6 09:29:59 2000
Karla, I just read your response below and I must say, I especially enjoyed
the last paragraph:
"I think that we must understand that there are
different
opinions here and we must be willing to accept one
another's opinions...without taking them
personally.
Sherry...your input is valuable to this group....as
is Igor's.
Let's not let our egos get in the way of reaching
out to
help our fellow sufferers. We should acknowledge
that
varying opinions are always going to exist and that
everyone has the right to express his or her
opinion and
then move on...so that we don't lose focus of the
real issue."
That was perfect!!! I wish I had read that before I sent my e-mail,
but I still stick to the fact that none of us should be rude or
disrespective to anyone in this forum, in our day to day lives, and just
because........ plain and simple. Thank you Karla for stating the obvious.
May God bless ALL of us.
> -----Original Message-----
> From: ifirgit@up.net [SMTP:ifirgit@up.net]
> Sent: Tuesday, June 06, 2000 1:00 AM
> To: Multiple recipients of list ADHESIONS
> Subject: Re: IGOR
>
> > I would like to say that when Igor first started to respond to my
> messages I felt that I really had to convince him that there was no
> other alternative to the surgery I have to have. But, then I came to
> realize that I didn't need to convince him....yes I have to have the
> surgery...but I was also interested in hearing what he had to say as
> far as alternative means of healing. If there is anything that I can
> do that might potentially prevent me from suffering in the future...or
> ease that suffering....I am game to try it. I told Igor just
> that...and he understood. I think that because he disagrees with the
> suggestions that you have made....as do I and as I stated I did...that
> you have totally misread his intentions. Why such a negative
> reaction? You did not respond to me in this manner and I don't feel
> that my response was any less negative than Igor's.
>
> I think that we must understand that there are different opinions here
> and we must be willing to accept one another's opinions...without
> taking them personally. Sherry...your input is valuable to this
> group....as is Igor's. Let's not let our egos get in the way of
> reaching out to help our fellow sufferers. We should acknowledge that
> varying opinions are always going to exist and that everyone has the
> right to express his or her opinion and then move on...so that we don't
> lose focus of the real issue.
>
> God Bless,
> Karla N.
>
> In a message dated 6/5/00 5:22:03 PM Eastern Daylight Time,
> > LNewman@milbank.com writes:
> >
> > << please do not attack or feel any distaste for
> > those of us who are merely passing on what happened and is happening
> to us,
> > >>
> >
> > huh? what happened to you... and.. who are you?
> >
> http://www.adhesions.org/forums/listcmds.htm
> >
>
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