I am new here but have a pretty good idea what is supposed to happen at this site. I can tell you that as a new person, in the short months that I have been visiting your site, I have seen more than I care to of this negativity that Linda speaks of in her posting. Lets be helpful, sympathetic, respectful, and caring towards each other.. This is a wonderful place for support and help. Please let's keep it this way. There are some wonderful people on this site. Don't drive them way.
Wishing everyone a pain free day!
Kathy