Re: Barium enama and adhesion

From: Cyn (ALady4All@Aol.Com)
Sun Nov 28 19:59:25 1999


At Sun, 28 Nov 1999, Bernie and Beverly Doucette wrote: >
>All who suffer ARD know that a surgery will in all probability not be a long
>term answer for the relief of our pain and suffering, but the one thing it
>WILL do for us is buy us a little more time! Time to be off lots of
>medications, time to live and enjoy life, time to eat and sleep an little
>better, time to smile...and to buy us time for a possible cure or effective
>treatments!
>
>We do know that the Intergel study's are underway, we do know that there are
>DR's out there who ARE working to improve their adhesiolysis techniques, we
>do know that there is at the very least, recognition of our disease! And to
>have adhesions finally recognized as the dominant cause of our pain is a
>massive advancement in our disease...recognition! You wouldn't be having
>surgery if a surgeon didn't recognize and respect that you are in fact
>suffering real pain and symptoms...all associated with adhesions! Now THAT
>alone is a breakthrough!
>
> All that has come about just within this last year, and in a great part to
>the IAS bringing it into the focus of the medical society as well as those
>suffering with it!
>
>If you or anyone elect to have a surgery, then have it. It will offer you
>some time to live, as even without ARD, no one knows how long they have to
>walk this great earth, so why NOT try it and give yourself the chance to
>live as near a normal life as you can. And just what if it does work for you
>and you are rendered pain free? All that could happen .....life is taking
>chances, and for us, surgery is taking a chance.
>
>Now, that is all the positives of looking at an adhesiolysis.......but here
>is the reality of having an elective adhesiolysis......
>
> I think that part of taking that chance though, is to have your T's crossed
>and I's doted before you go into it. It is one thing to have that surgery
>and have short term relief, but what happens when you are so full of
>adhesions from surgery's that you cannot have more surgery's ( and yes, that
>happens all the time ) and are suffering pain so bad that you cannot only
>play with your child, have relations with your husband, but NO recourses
>either?
>
>As long as you have discuss all aspects of what will happen to you and your
>body following another surgery, including what happens if you present with
>pain again shortly down the road following the surgery, or what happens if
>your adhesion become so dense and you cannot have any more adhesiolysis
>surgery's due to the adhesion build up from to many surgery's. Maybe you
>should think about discussing all this with your primary DR. as to just what
>steps he will take when you can no longer have adhesiolysis surgery's due to
>massive dense adhesions and your presenting to him with massive pain! Think
>about those things as this is part of living with ARD...
>
>If you have exhausted all pain medications as a way to relieve your symptoms
>and you can accept what a surgery in all probability will bring to your body
>in your future, then have your surgery. I wonder if you are really getting
>effective medications as I lived with this for 14 years and it wasn't until
>the last 4 years that I was actually able to handle the pain and get through
>my days with the help of medications.
>
>Cyn, you really have to think about these things as it will be up to you as
>to how your future will be....you already have ARD....think about this...do
>you have time to learn about it and try to take control of it without a
>surgery? Or will it be another surgery that in all probability will only
>make you worse? Are you willing to take that chance....you've had surgery's
>before, that is how you got the way you are now...what do you REALLY think
>another surgery will do to an adhesion former? What would YOU advise me to
>do as an adhesion former?
>
>Having another surgery will buy you time, I did it in April of this
>year....I made my choice...but I checked out the surgeon, I asked how many
>laporoscopic adhesiolysis surgery's he has done, I requested his
>adhesiolysis procedure to see what made his different then my prior
>adhesiolysis surgery's as I wanted the best chance a surgery could offer me
>as to non reforming adhesion following the surgery. It took me four months
>of study, contacting references and understanding adhesion formation before
>I elected to go with it. I also met with my PCP as to what we will do in the
>event the adhesions do reform. I wanted to make sure that we all knew
>exactly where we stood if I presented with undiagnosable pain again!!
>Respect and recognition as to my disease! You can find my story in the June
>forum of the IAS....and mine was no ordinary adhesiolysis....if it succeeds
>it may just open the door for many who suffer this disabling disease.
>
>I am not against someone suffering with ARD to have an adhesiolysis, not at
>all, but I am against them going into it blind...no excuse for that at all
>now days. So cover you tail, ask questions that relate to YOUR future
>treatment sin the event this doesn't work...that is all it takes. To many of
>those who suffer with ARD have had so many adhesiolysis surgery's that they
>are now being told that they are all but hopeless in getting effective
>treatment, ..and they live in their pain...wondering if that pain would be
>less right now if the had NOT had that adhesiolysis surgery that offered
>them that same short term pain relief....I wonder that all the time..and if
>this one doesn't work...I know what I am in for..but I sure hope by that
>time, help for us has been found!
>
>Good luck to you, be sure, be safe and even in the midst of your pain and
>suffering...be smart!
>
>God speed be with you! Beverly

>>----- Original Message -----
>From: Cyn <ALady4All@aol.com>
>To: Multiple recipients of list ADHESIONS <adhesions@talk.obgyn.net>
>Sent: Sunday, November 28, 1999 10:16 AM
>Subject: Barium enama and adhesion
>Beverly,

thank you for your post. I have done research on this ALOT. The surgeon that is doing this up coming surgery is very well quilified and when I see him Thursday I have a list of questions to ask him. I personally think that I am making the right choice for me, I have been suffering so long with this and I am in constant pain. I am not on any pain relievers, the drs will not give them to me any longer, not sure why. They all know I am in severe pain but they do not prescribe anything for it. I had one Dr actually tell me that he wanted to see how long I could go without pain meds just to make sure that I was not "covering" up my pain with the meds. But every since I found out how bad my adhesions were in Aug I have researched the web for as much as I can get on them. But now we are no longer just talking Adhesions, we are talking possible strangulation on the intestines. So, this is not something that I can or will fool around with. It is now something that has to be done so that I do not get into bigger trouble later on. So I will take the risk of more adhesion instead of putting my life in more danger. I do not see this as elective surgery anymore, this is now something that HAS to be done. I plan to talk to my dr about the new gel that is out and see if he might be willing to use it, I am even going to talk to him about going back within 2 weeks and removing the new adhesions that may develope to help prevent them. I know someone that has worked on and I am willing to try that too. Plus if it turns out that I have a blockage, then I would need surgery anyway, so it is not like I have much choice in this matter. Mine it is not for adhesion ONLY there are other things going on as well. As for the other surgeries I have had, the only one that was abdom incision was the last one where I had a bladder prolapse, the one in Nov was done through Lap and the one in Mar was all vaginially. I do at times blame my GYN if he had LISTENED to me in Nov of last year then I would have had only ONE surgery, not three before this one. It is hard to find DRs that will listen to thier patients, it is like they do not want to hear what we have to say because we do not have their degrees. But yet it is our bodies and I think we know what is going on with it more then they do at times. I am not down on all DRs just a few that I have delt with, I asked my GYN to do an ADBOM when he did my hyst in Mar and he did not think he needed to....well it turns out that he did need to, if he had he would have seen that I needed the bladder tack and I had the hernia. That would have been one less surgery that I ended up having in Aug. But I know I can not go backwards just forwards and if this one will give me relief for awhile then that is what I am going for. I no longer can take this pain and the sooner the surgery can be done the better. I started having this exact pain 2 months ago and gyn thought I had a hernia and sent me to a surgeon and all they did was a nerve block, which did not help. I will not keep going through this if there is a way out even if it is temp. But thank you anyway for your input. I just know my body and what I can and can't take anymore, thank goodness I have a husband that agrees with me. Cyn >> Hi,
>> I am having a Barium Enema tomorrow and doing all the prep things today.
>> I know what they are looking for and I am almost sure they will find a
>> blockage of some sort. I go back to the GI(he is the one that order the
>> Barium) Tuesday and then to see the Surgeon on Thursday. I know and my
>> GI knows that I have adhesion that are causing problems with my
>> Intestines, constipation and dia. I am hoping that the surgeon will
>> order the surgery for the following week and that it is NOT just day
>> surgery. My last surgery was Aug. and it was almost 5 hours long due
>> to all of the adhesion. It took the Dr almost an hour just to get to my
>> left ovary. I read the report and on the report it says, Massive
>> adhesions everywhere. I know that more surgery can and probably will
>> cause my adhesion, but I can not continue in the pain I am in. My
>> husband and I have not been able to make love in over 3 months due to
>> pain, I can not love on my 3 year old like I use to be able to because
>> of the pain. Since November of 98 I have had 3 surgeries.
>> Nov. Ovarian suspention/uterus ablation/endo
>>
>> Mar. Vaginal Hyst with right ovary removed(suspention did not work)
>>
>> Aug. Recto./cysto/left ovary removed/hernia/excesse
>> tissue/adhesions(covered)...this surgery was done by a large incision.
>>
>> So now I am looking at more surgery to "fix" all of the others. But I
>> really need it because I can not continue this way. I am like alot of
>> you, thoughts of "ending it", running away, why bother...I have been
>> through all of them. But I can't let them get me down anymore. So
>> please feel free to Email me to let me know what I am going through is
>> not all in my mind, sometimes I feel like I am losing it. Thank you in
>> advance for your help. Cyn
>>


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