Re: My Last & Final Post On This Site!!!

From: Robin M (rmasse2333@aol.com)
Mon Nov 4 07:36:07 2002


Dear Denise, I am sorry you feel like you have been put down & all. I am sure no one meant to make you feel that way. I wish you would reconsider & stay here on the board. robin M

At Mon, 4 Nov 2002, Denise wrote: >
>Due to constant ridicules and "opinionated" attitudes of some people on
>this site, it has been more than enough for me to handle! When I M first
>came to this, I thought " Oh man, how nice to FINALLY find other people
>with the same problem as myself"!!! Since then, almost everything I have
>said and posted on this site has either been shot down, or in so many
>"polite" words, made to sound like a total nut case!! Even though what I
>post here is true and has happened to me!!!
>It really bothers me to see how people can be so condescending to your
>problems!! To actually say that you did something wrong or that you
>didn't do enough to help your case!! When you have no way or right to
>make that accusation!!!!
>I came to this site with hope, in the short time I have been posting
>here, 90% of everything I have stated has been ridiculed!!! Until you
>walk in someone else's shoes, you really should not be so eager to
>"judge" what they say!!! You also should not state that they are doing
>something wrong just because the "Agency" is NOT doing their jobs!!!!!
>It insults me to think that people can just judge you or shot down your
>experiences just because they THINK differently!!!!!! Until you walk in
>the shoes of others, you really shouldn't be so eager to judge!!!!
>I have letters here from the SS people, denial letters 3 of them in
>fact, all stating that they spoke with my Doctors and also stating that
>they got my medical records from the 2 different hospitals I have had my
>surgeries in. When I called the hospitals to verify the records, I was
>told that they requested certain dates { only 4 dates} and NONE of them
>were regarding any of my 16 surgeries!!!!
>When I asked my Doctors if they had been contacted,,, each and every one
>of them said "NO" they had NOT been contacted or they would of told SS
>people I was FULLY disabled!!!!! So you tell me,,, am I crazy because
>this state does not do their job??? No I don't think so,, heck most of
>these people can't even vote right, you think that they can properly
>asses someone's pain or disability????? Think again,,,,!!!!!!
>As for contacting my state officials,,, done that too my dear,,,, even
>received a letter this week end from my Governor,,, it stated that he
>could not help me and that if I felt that my case was not being handled
>right,,, I should request a new case worker!!!!!! Ha!!!! I don't have a
>case worker any more,,, I have a lawyer!!!!!! I was denied 3 times and
>NEVER told to "reopen" my case,,, in fact I was told that I had to start
>over each time,,, so, as for getting "back pay" it won't happen in my
>case since I have 3 applications!!!! Of which I was told by the SS
>people to open new cases each time!!!!
>So do me a favor,,, don't tell me I don't know what I am talking about,,
>since clearly you have no way to know what I have to go through here in
>Florida to get SSI or SSD!!!! What may of happened to you,, does not
>always happen to everyone else!!!!!
>And until your walking in that persons shoes,,, you really should not be
>so eager to be so judgmental, because you really do not have a clue just
>what kind of "hell" they may really be going through!!!!!!!!
>I am just tired of the things I have posted on this site being ridiculed
>and down played,,, I am truly happy that you have not had to endure the
>hellish nightmare that I am still continuing to endure to get SSD, but
>you really do not have the right to tell me I am wrong,, or even that I
>have not done something right regarding my case and MY life!!!!!!
>But hey, I guess someone is always going to know more than you or me
>when it involves YOUR life!!!!! I thank you all for the help that was
>given during my short time on this site, I assure you, I will not be
>making anymore posts here!!! I just can't deal with the constant
>ridicule and judgmental attitudes I seem to get after I make a post
>based on my TRUE experiences!!!!
>I wish you all the very best in health and happiness.
>Denise


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